I’ve been married to my wife for 23 years. We have always been honest with each other.

I work away from home a lot. I opened her phone messages and found a text from a friend of ours on her phone and only half a conversation;

“Yes honestly I am totally fine you are just over analyzing it. I will see you tomorrow.” She replied, “Sleep tight.”

This same guy was at my house two weeks ago, and I left them having drinks with my two adult daughters. I awoke at 1:30 am to go to the toilet, and as I walked passed lounge I saw them embracing in a very tight hug. They were alone, everyone else sleeping.

The following day I check her phone and this message thread is now gone and not even his name is left in messages. She has deleted my fingerprint access to her phone without telling me and now is very secretive with some texts later in the evening.

Now I’m not sure if I should carry on my pursuit of this or maybe I am over analyzing. Please help me out a bit here.

 

Hi, if you saw them in an embrace, then they ended up having sex.
She took your phone access away so you would not see what they are talking about. She is cheating on you. If the phone is in your name . some phone companies can give you all the texts sent and received from that phone. You should try it https://infidelityprivateinvestigato...igators-perth/
You may find out what is going on, when a woman is doing what she is doing it means she is cheating. See the red flags, my friend. He could also put hidden cameras up in the house so the next time they are alone, you can see what is going on
What would you do if she is cheating? I hope you wouldn’t be a doormat and let her get away with it.
You could wait till she is asleep and put her finger on the phone to unlock it."